Best Ways To Find BDSM Contacts

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If you are looking for BDSM contacts you might feel like you have absolutely no idea where to start looking for like-minded people. Let’s face it, the standard dating game can be a nightmare, but finding people that are in your niche or share your fetishes can seem almost impossible. There are plenty of places you can look for BDSM hookups that are not necessarily ones you would immediately think of!

Specific websites

Websites like mybdsmhookups.com provide an amazing starting point for anyone new, or a great source of reliable contacts for anyone that has been in the BDSM game a long time. With an easy to navigate UI, where you can specify on the homepage exactly who you are and exactly what you are looking for, you wont find it difficult to get up an running and start chatting to people. Remember there are no airs or graces on this type of website. You don’t need to “fluff” your profile. Everyone knows what they are there for so you can get straight down to the type of thing you like and the type of person you are looking for.

Social media

Some people do not like to share their sexual preferences and that’s fine. But that does’t mean you can’t use social media to try and find people with the same ones as you. Many people into this kind of thing have a second profile where they express their innermost desires without actually revealing their identity. You’ll find Facebook has a lot of closed groups for this kind of thing, and using particular hashtags on Instagram will also let you find people to chat to or meet up with. But the real gem when it comes to BDSM on social media is Twitter. You only need to spend five minutes doing a quick search and you will realise that there is a huge BDSM community on Twitter that is just waiting for you to discover it.

Real life

Yes – REAL LIFE dating can also lead you to someone who completely shares your sexual preferences. Now I am not saying that you should tell your first date how much you love BDSM while you are having a casual coffee in Pret, but if you meet someone you click with, why not reveal this down the line? If you are single the chances are you are looking to have some fun but on some level you are also looking for a lasting relationship. If this is the case then during the process of getting to know the new person you might casually bring up BDSM and see what their thoughts are on it. At best, you’ll find someone who  shares your interest straight off of the bat, which would be an incredible win! But at worst, you may come across someone who likes the idea but has never tried it, in which case you get to be the one to break them in. And if you do find someone who is absolutely disgusted at the idea but think they are for you long term – trust me, they’re not.

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